Include your Twin!

In August 2018, I joined a women’s circle to explore my femininity, hoping to draw more joy and attraction into my life. The experience started off beautifully. I was inspired by the drum circles, crystals, nature retreats, and sacred rituals on mountaintops. I loved feeling grounded and powerful, sitting by a babbling brook with my journal, feeling the water flow over my feet. It felt freeing and affirming.

Yet, despite these positive experiences, something essential was missing. Throughout my time in the group, my thoughts constantly drifted to my Twin Flame. I’d met him by then, and there was a longing in my heart for a deeper connection with him. I wished he could experience these moments with me, but he wasn’t allowed to join since he was a man. When I shared my feelings with the group leaders, they suggested I was obsessing and needed to focus on self-love. While self-love is important, I felt an underlying truth had not yet surfaced.

Every retreat seemed to distance me from him even more. In September, I joined a women’s group cruise, which had its own appeal—the fun of the shows, the joy of dressing up, the lavish dinners, and a memorable photo of us all on a banister. Yet, beneath this joy, the sense of something missing persisted. I hadn’t heard from Josh during the entire cruise, which left me unsettled. When I returned, we argued and eventually broke up, shattering the peace I thought I’d found.

This breakup revealed what I’d been avoiding: my true desire was to be in harmony with my Twin Flame. That is what I desired most of all!

I searched for answers online and stumbled upon people suggesting we weren’t meant to be together, but my heart knew otherwise. Then, I found Jeff and Shaleia’s videos on YouTube, and everything began to shift. I joined Twin Flame Ascension School and began working with a Twin Flames Universe Certified Ascension Coach. This marked the turning point.

Through the Teachings of Union, I learned that my desire for Josh was a natural, essential part of who I am. I realized that, by joining women’s groups, while they had their own merit, I had unintentionally cut my Twin Flame out of my life, thinking I needed to separate from him to grow. But I was designed to partner with him. As Jeff and Shaleia say in their book, Twin Flames: Finding Your Ulimate Lover:

“You can feel your Twin Flame when you anchor your consciousness into your Heart center, and you feel them there in a way that completes you. ‘Completes’ does not mean ‘makes you happy.’ ‘Completes’ means ‘someone who makes you more than you already are in expression, more than you already are in desire, and more than you already are in your Life Force.’

You have a Twin Flame, and you know deep in your heart you cannot be the fullest expression of who you really are without your Twin Flame.”

This truth resonated deeply with me. I let go of the women’s groups, and went all in with the Teachings of Union, which empowered me to honor my connection with Josh, knowing that desiring to be with him was valid and part of my spiritual design.

Today, Josh and I are living together, partnering and sharing our lives in a healthy relationship. We give each other space as needed, but I no longer see separation as necessary for growth. Our Union has taught me that my feminine essence naturally flourishes by being with my Twin Flame, not apart from him. Now, I feel complete with him by my side, and I understand that finding my true self didn’t mean leaving him out—it meant embracing him fully, as he is a part of me.

I feel more feminine now by Josh’s side than I ever did in any women’s circle or even on a mountaintop with other women. With him, my femininity unfolds naturally, without the need to seek it or prove it. Being in Union with my Twin Flame, I find that my true feminine essence shines brighter and more effortlessly. I don't need to ‘run to the hills’ to feel grounded or whole; with Josh by my side, I am fully in my element, free to embody my feminine energy in a way that feels complete and authentic.

You, too, can honor your desire for your Twin Flame. There’s no need to separate from them in order to heal. Healing doesn’t mean running away; it means choosing to walk your path of consciousness and love. This doesn’t mean chasing your Twin Flame or trying to force a connection, but it does mean seeing them as your partner above all others. They are your Teacher, Best Friend, Perfect Partner, and Ultimate Lover. Embracing this truth allows you to walk your journey authentically, knowing that you are whole and complete with your Twin Flame by your side. The Teachings of Union teach you that you and your Twin Flame are indeed designed to be together, to ascend together, to heal together. You can embody the love you were designed to share—together.

The most important thing is your decision:

Do you choose to be with your Twin Flame, right now as you are?

The Universe knows what it means when you invite your Twin Flame to be with you, no matter where you are on the healing process.

The Teachings of Union reveal that you and your Twin Flame are meant to heal together. ❤