Twin Flame Healing
For a while, I relied on writing to-do lists for my Twin Flame, Josh, to manage our shared household chores. At first, it seemed perfect—Josh completed everything on the list, and it felt satisfying to see our responsibilities so clearly addressed. He even mentioned how much he appreciated the structure because it made things straightforward.
But over time, something felt off. The lists stopped being a tool of collaboration and started feeling like a burden. I realized I was taking on all the responsibility for our household. If I didn’t write it down, it didn’t happen. I was falling into a pattern of control, trying to manage our life in a way that wasn’t aligned with the divine order. Responsibility for our Union and our shared life ultimately belongs to God.
In the context of Twin Flame healing, this was a powerful realization. God isn’t some distant force—He’s within me and within Josh, expressing through both of us as we navigate our Union. When I forgot this, I disconnected from my divine source and carried a weight that wasn’t mine.
This pattern is common in Twin Flame journeys: outsourcing responsibility to external forces while avoiding inner healing. It leads to spiritual laziness and misplaced blame, keeping us stuck in separation consciousness. The Teachings of Union, foundational in Twin Flame Ascension, remind us to take full responsibility for ourselves by staying connected with God.
As I reflected on Josh’s behavior, I saw how it mirrored two sides of the same coin within me. On one side, I avoided taking responsibility for myself, wishing someone else would take the lead. On the other, I embodied a controlling, dictator-like energy, trying to force outcomes. Both sides were rooted in separation from God, which only created pain and disconnection in my Twin Flame Union.
Healing this dynamic meant choosing to reconnect with God within and surrender control. Through the Mirror Exercise, I uncovered these patterns during coaching and realized that healing codependency doesn’t mean avoiding dependence—it means depending on God, not external circumstances or even my Twin Flame. Trusting God within is a safe and liberating choice.
When I released control and trusted the divine guidance within, everything shifted. It felt like stepping into warmth after being in the cold. God was there, expressing through me, nurturing me, and restoring balance to my Twin Flame Union. It wasn’t a distant God doing this—it was God within, co-creating with me in love.
Taking responsibility for myself is an essential part of Twin Flame healing. It’s not about carrying everything alone but aligning with God’s divine order. This is the foundation of what Jeff and Shaleia’s Teachings of Union have shown me.
When I lose focus, I turn to the tools and practices that bring me back into harmony. God always provides the next step, and by choosing peace, I welcome more love, purpose, and balance into my Twin Flame Union.
This journey isn’t just about finding peace in the relationship—it’s about deepening my connection with God and embracing my divine role in our harmonious life together.
Heal Twin Flame Separation Permanently
Josh and I are living together now in Union thanks to the powerful teachings I practice. It’s my mission to help you with your Twin Flame Union. I’ve been coaching other Twin Flames for years, and I’m confident I can help you out of separation and into Harmonious Twin Flame Union with the partner your heart longs for.
If you’re ready to transform your Love Life with your Twin Flame, book your first session with me!
