Can you stop?
Can You Stop Your Twin Flame Journey?
I often get asked if it's possible to stop your Twin Flame journey. Many people ask this question because they're feeling overwhelmed or like they're on a rollercoaster they want to get off.
However, the truth is that you can't really stop your Twin Flame journey because your Twin Flame is you. They are the other wing of the bird, and you are designed to fly and soar together. It would be like ripping a wing off a bird to try to get rid of your Twin Flame. [Sorry for the grotesque imagery, but you get the picture.]
So why does it feel overwhelming, and what do you do?
What feels bad isn’t the inner work, it’s the unhealed block that you've been holding in your consciousness.
It feels overwhelming because you are either trying to force or pressure your way through your blocks, which isn’t the way, or you are withholding going all the way through the Mirror Exercise and avoiding, thereby numbing instead of moving all the way through your feelings. (As an aside, if you notice yourself numbing often, this is often a sign of previously existing trauma patterns, which you can heal with the Mind Alignment Process.)
Avoiding the inner work isn’t going to work, and will actually be much more painful in the long run. I’ve seen a handful of people try to quit doing the inner work, believing they could simply avoid what their Twin Flame was showing them that they need to heal. What happened is their upsets piled up like dirty laundry, and they found themselves feeling worse than they did before they even started the work. Jeff and Shaleia talk about this in Twin Flame Ascension School as well.
Stopping your inner work is not the answer. It’s like saying '“I don’t like the feeling of going to the bathroom, so I’m just going to stop going to the bathroom.” [Yes, another gross example from me, and I do apologize, but it’s very fitting for this example!] That wouldn’t turn out so well, would it?
The inner work taught in Twin Flame Ascension School is gentle, easy, and fun. If it’s not feeling that way, you’re approaching it wrong. Luckily, there is help, and that’s why Jeff and Shaleia created Twin Flame Ascension School and Ascension Coaching. The inner work that you do is not meant to be done isolated in a cave or an ashram. You live in the world, and you can choose to claim support in order to make the inner work easy and gentle. You guide the pace, and you can relax into the rhythm of it, taking it one step at a time.
The healing work is always going to feel more peaceful, bringing more joy, harmony, and love into your life.
Be gentle and compassionate with yourself. The pressure is not coming from the outside, and it's especially not coming from your Twin Flame. It's coming from within. You can choose to let go of that pressure your putting on yourself and choose for your journey to be easy and peaceful. Your choice is powerful! The journey is one of surrender, not pushing, and don’t worry, you’ll get there with your Twin Flame in Harmony!
If you’re ready to feel better, try an Ascension Coaching session with me, and I'll walk you through the Mirror Exercise and help you to let go of the pressure and be more compassionate with yourself. Remember, the journey is about love, and you can choose to let go and enjoy the journey instead! And, step by step, you will glide into your Harmonious Twin Flame Union.
