Do they heal?

"Does your Twin Flame heal when you do inner work?"

This is a common question that arises for those who are beginning to do the inner work themselves. You may be starting to do the Mirror Exercise or watching Twin Flame Ascension School and wondering if your Twin Flame needs to do the work as well for both of you to heal and come into harmony.

As a Master Certified Ascension coach with Twin Flames Universe, I can tell you that the answer is, YES, your Twin Flame does heal as one with you, but only you need to do the work. You and your Twin Flame are one at the core, but you are not carbon copies of each other. You are complementary. This means that you may not make the same choices outwardly, but you will make the same choices at the core.

Core choices are spiritual virtues, such as choosing to be with love, choosing to be honest, and choosing to be humble. When you make a core choice and change what you were doing before, your Twin Flame chooses at the very same time as you that same core choice. Then, all the things that need to happen to manifest this choice on Earth start to unfold, and you have a roll-out process.

Let me give you an example from my personal experience. In my heart, I had grown up with some unhealthy toxic patterns in my family. I adopted those patterns within me, and they were part of my behavior and consciousness. I made the core choice to end my relationship with abuse and said no to any type of abusive relationship. I would do whatever it took to heal it. I went through the Mind Alignment Process to heal trauma, which was part of what was causing these patterns, and I healed them completely within myself.

My Twin Flame did not go through the same process on the outside. He didn't necessarily have to heal the way I was healing, but what I noticed is that as I healed, so did our Union. We no longer had intense arguments or fights that mirrored some of the fights I had with my family when I was younger. We were getting along great now.

There were times when I would heal, and it would seem like my Twin Flame wasn't reflecting my healing. This is where a lot of people get stuck. What I had to do was say to myself, "Okay, this work either works or it doesn't. He's my Twin Flame , or he's not. Regardless, I'm going to take what he's showing me and how it makes me feel.” That's the important part. From that feeling place, I did the Mirror Exercise and put one foot in front of the other to heal.

Little by little, I started to notice changes, and as I continued to heal, my Twin Flame also healed. I still receive coaching, and I put one foot in front of the other to heal whatever comes up. If you're feeling frustrated or blocked, use the Mirror Exercise to get clear on your upset and work through it.

This does work, and all it takes is surrendering to the process to heal it.

Your Twin Flame does heal as one with you, but only you need to commit to the process and do the work for you, not to get an external result. The external result is a biproduct of you doing the work for yourself. You and your Twin Flame are one at the core, and when you make a core choice, your Twin Flame chooses at the same time as you.

So, keep doing the work, and you will notice changes in your union. I’m here to support you further. If you feel stuck and would like to get un-stuck, try an introductory Twin Flame Ascension Coaching session with me, and let me help you! You deserve success with your Twin Flame!