3rd Party?
Twin Flame relationships can be both beautiful and challenging at the same time. One of the most difficult situations to deal with is when your Twin Flame is with someone else, whether they're married to someone else or in a third-party situation. It can be triggering and painful, but it's essential to remember that you and your Twin Flame are one at the core, meaning you share the same soul blueprint or soul essence.
This shared soul blueprint means that you both make the same core choices, not just superficial choices like favorite ice cream flavors or clothing. These choices are made at a deep level, such as committing to be with each other and having faith that you can be with your one true love. If your Twin Flame is with someone else, it reflects a choice you've made at the core level.
It's important to note that your Twin Flame is not mirroring what they are doing to you, but rather what you are doing within yourself. The Twin Flame relationship is a complete mirror of yourself, and they are your perfect mirror. Therefore, if your Twin Flame is with someone else, it's a reflection of the choice you've made within yourself that someone else is a better partner to you than you are.
To heal this situation, you can use the Mirror Exercise that Jeff and Shaleia teach in Twin Flame Ascension School.
The first step is to state your upset, such as "I'm upset because my Twin Flame is choosing someone other than me."
The second step is to change all the nouns into pronouns and point them at yourself, such as "I'm upset because I'm choosing someone other than myself."
The third step is to go inside and locate the part of yourself that isn't choosing yourself. For example, you may not see yourself as your perfect partner and are depending on someone outside of yourself to partner with you.
The fourth step is to ask that part of yourself what it needs to feel loved and give that love to yourself. You can use your imagination to visualize experiences that invoke a feeling of love and give yourself all the love you need.
Dealing with your Twin Flame being with someone else can be challenging, but it's essential to remember that the Twin Flame relationship is a complete mirror of yourself. You both share the same soul essence, and any core-level choices your Twin Flame makes are a reflection of what you've made within yourself. By using the Mirror Exercise, you can identify the part of yourself that isn't choosing yourself and give yourself all the love you need to heal.
Remember, you are worthy of love, and you are your own perfect partner. You and your Twin Flame are One, and you can relax into this truth!
