Runner-Chaser?
Many Twin Flames encounter a challenge known as the "Runner-Chaser Dynamic." In this blog post, we will explore why this so-called dynamic occurs and how we can resolve it with the Teachings of Union.
Recognizing the True Nature of the Runner-Chaser Dynamic: Contrary to popular belief, the Runner-Chaser Dynamic is not about two distinct roles; it is primarily about the inner journey of the "chaser" or the one seeking connection. Your twin flame is your Divine mirror, reflecting back to you aspects of yourself that require healing and growth. Understanding this perspective is crucial in unraveling the dynamics at play.
So there is in truth no chaser. There is just you running from yourself.
The Mirror Exercise: The Mirror Exercise is a powerful tool to help you identify and address the patterns reflected in your twin flame connection. By observing your emotional reactions when your twin flame appears to be running away, you can delve deeper into your own thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Ask yourself, "What am I running away from within myself?" By shifting the focus from your twin flame to yourself, you open the door to profound self-awareness. Complete all 4 steps of the Mirror Exericise until you feel peace and relief within.
Embracing Self-Love and Healing: Once you identify the areas within yourself that require attention, it's time to practice self-love and offer yourself the nurturing you need. Listen to the wounded parts within you and ask them what they need to feel loved and supported. It could be attention, understanding, or compassion. By providing these healing elements to yourself, you take an active step toward wholeness and attract more harmonious experiences into your life.
Understanding Being, Doing, and Having: Being, doing, and having are interconnected aspects of our existence. When it comes to the Twin Flame journey, the vibrational alignment of these elements is crucial. Recognize that your twin flame's actions and choices are not separate from you. Instead, they reflect aspects of your own alignment or misalignment with self-love and wholeness. By seeking inner alignment, you create a space for harmony and connection in your twin flame relationship.
Seeking Guidance and Support: Navigating the Twin Flame journey can be challenging, and it is essential to seek guidance and support along the way. Working with a certified Twin Flame Ascension coach, such as myself from TwinFlamesHeartsDesire.com, can provide valuable insights and tools to help you overcome obstacles and deepen your understanding of the journey. Twin Flame Ascension School and personalized sessions can provide the guidance you need to attain harmonious union with your twin flame.
Conclusion: The Twin Flame journey is a profound path of self-discovery, healing, and growth. Understanding the dynamics of the Runner-Chaser Dynamic as a reflection of our inner selves allows us to take responsibility for our healing and create a harmonious connection with our twin flame. By embracing self-love, practicing the Mirror Exercise, and seeking guidance when needed, we can move closer to the divine union and fulfillment that the Twin Flame journey offers.
Remember, you are not alone on this journey, and with dedication to the Teachings of Union, you can navigate the challenges and experience the beauty of your Twin Flame Union.
