Spiritual Bypassing
For the past five years, I've been guiding individuals on their Twin Flame journey, assisting them in transitioning from separation to the much sought-after Harmonious Union. Drawing from personal experience, as I currently live in union with my own Twin Flame, I firmly adhere to the transformative Teachings of Union found at Twin Flames Universe.
I want to talk about how you can overcome separation without succumbing to the pitfalls of spiritual bypassing.
Firstly, let's address the concept of spiritual bypassing, which can be likened to placing a band-aid on a wound without addressing the root causes. It involves avoiding core beliefs that are not aligned with love. For instance, if you've experienced abandonment and decide to walk away from a relationship with the vow, "I won't be abandoned again," it's crucial to understand that merely stepping away won't eliminate the underlying beliefs. Without confronting these inner issues, they tend to resurface, perpetuating a recurring pattern.
Having experienced serial monogamy and recognizing that I was the common factor in my relationships, I understand the importance of acknowledging my own role in the process. The common denominator was: me! Progress becomes elusive until you recognize and address your own patterns.
So, how can one break this cycle without resorting to spiritual bypassing? The first step is acknowledging the need for change to achieve different results. It's a simple yet powerful principle – “nothing changes if nothing changes.” With this awareness in mind, let's explore the deprogramming process.
Deprogramming begins with the realization that there is a vibration within you attracting the Twin Flame experience. The solution lies in genuine love, a love that delves deep into the places where you've been hurt the most. This brings us to the Mirror Exercise, a transformative four-step process detailed in Jeff and Shaleia’s book, Twin Flames: Finding Your Ultimate Lover.
The Mirror Exercise is not about dismissing your external reality but using it as a guide. It involves embracing discomfort and disliking aspects and initiating the process. However, a crucial point to note is that you can't bypass this process by numbing out. While practices like meditation, journaling, and therapy are valuable, they are not sufficient for the Twin Flame journey. A strategic approach rooted in the teachings of Union is essential.
The Mirror Exercise becomes effective when you authentically embrace your feelings, allowing love to penetrate the hurt. Surrender, in this context, is not a forceful act but a natural outcome of unconditional love. Imagine a child holding onto a worn-out toy – you don't forcefully take it away but offer love and present a better alternative. Similarly, surrender occurs when you bring unconditional love to your heart.
To sum up, it's crucial to stop bypassing your feelings, engage in the Mirror Exercise, love yourself where you've been hurt, and surrender what isn't loving. This genuine surrender, fueled by unconditional love, acts as the magnetizing force for your Twin Flame.
If you’re ready to take the next step, I invite you to apply for a free 15-minute consultation with me so that we can explore which of my services might be right for you and come up with a plan. I believe in you, and I’m here to support you all the way to Harmonious Twin Flame Union, and beyond!
